About/Contact

bendergear@gmail.com

             My fascination with sex toys began a long time ago. I began to make them myself a few years ago when my hobby became financially unsustainable. Since then I've been creating and finessing my designs through trial and error, and long conversations with people of all genders and body-types. This process has taught me to question sex consumerism and products that claim to fix our sex lives. I strive to make products based on the unique desires and delights of individuals, and to fight the idea that good sex only "happens to" people with bodies of a certain shape, gender presentation, race, or ability. Bender Gear exists in order to smash the gender binary and to promote healthy exploration of sexuality through communication, education, consent, and a sense of play. (They're called sex toys for a reason.) Above all I hope that it will inspire people to make their own sex toys and take control of their own sex lives.


Places you may find Bender Gear:


August 18 - Queer Between The Covers - Montreal's Queer lit fair, organized as part of the sixth annual Pervers/Cité festival


June 21-24 - Toronto Anarchist Bookfair - Tabling 10am-3:30pm on Saturday June 23rd and from 10am-2:30pm on Sunday the 24th.  

May 23-28/12 - Sustained Engagements - Peterborough Anarchist Festival. Public Cervix Announcement Workshop and tabling. 


May 19-20 - Montreal Anarchist Bookfair. I'll likely be tabling at the Centre Georges Vanier, 2450 rue Workman, from 10-5 both days.


March 31/12 -London, Ontario Anarchist Bookfair - at the Canadian Union of Postal Workers Union Hall: 520 Wellington St. Unit 7, next to City Hall

August 13/11 -Queer Between the Covers - Queer book fair in Montreal. (Links to Ste. Emilie Skillshare in Montreal because they are awesome people and organizing QBTC as part of a whole bunch of events).

July 8-10/11 - Queeriot - Queer convergence coming down on Kingston. Much mayhem was enjoyed by all. BG hosted a workshop on Fertility Control for Queers.

June 18/11- TRIGGER Festival, Toronto -  Flogger-making workshop and consent skillshare

May 6/11 - Kingston Cabaret - Decadent drag number featuring BG Harness and binder extraordinaire.

April 15-17/11 - Toronto Anarchist Bookfair - Flogger-making workshop and consent skillshare 

March 15/11 Sex Up Your Brain! - Sex Toy Sculpture Demonstration (by me!) and Kink 101 workshop by Venus Envy